Friday, October 15, 2021
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Thursday, October 14, 2021
NEW DOWNLOAD AVAILABLE
I am happy to announce that there is a new PDF download available when you subscribe to my newsletter. It features a collection of my personal drawings I completed using the Amaziograph app which you can find in Microsoft Store, Play Store for Android, and Apple Store.
The app charges a one time download fee of $.99, which for me, was totally worth it. That is my personal opinion and I am NOT getting paid to promote them in any way. There are other great apps that will do the same, But, I've always found this one to be my personal favorite. The app does offer a REFUND should you change your mind about keeping it. I'm not sure how long the refund option is good for, since I've never chosen that option.
There are different functions within the app; like all apps, you just have to explore it on your own and decide for yourself if it is worth the small fee.
PROS:
- Import designs straight from your gallery to use in app.
- Includes 20 symmetries to choose from which are customizable
- Includes Brush, eraser, and paint bucket tools
- Automatically smooths lines when you draw
- Customize canvas size to fit your needs
- Export, Save, Share your work to use in any project
CONS:
- Upon opening new project, background needs to be filled in with white color first, or your image will have missing spots when you upload to certain apps
- No FREE version to try out first
- No palm rejection tool in app
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Monday, October 11, 2021
Terrible Way To Express An Opinion
Normally, I am very careful about the way I respond to my boys’ inquiries on how their work is and am careful to explain when it comes to my opinions on their creativity. Today was so not a shining moment for me.
My young teenage son gave me a paper that he had printed up with a short paragraph that he wanted me to read. After reading the first two sentences, I refused to read any more of it since it was full of nothing but jibberish. It was not worth my time to finish reading it and I explained that to him a few times when he kept insisting on me reading it.
Finally, I did give in and read it this morning. As expected, it was a total waste of time. I called him in to take his paper away since I didn’t even want it in my sight. He came in and waited for my opinion of the work he had done. I had not given him an opinion at first and just told him to take his paper back. He had not left and I asked what he wanted.
“Well? What did you think?”
At that point, without even hesitating I told him “I thought it was stupid and a total waste of time.” I don’t really know what came over me when I gave my brutally hurtful opinion except that I felt angry for him insisting that I read it in the first place.
Immediately, I could see I had seriously hurt him, like I had stabbed him in the heart. In a sense, I guess I had with my words. I’ve always insisted on not using certain words in our house because of how hateful they sound. Crap…I really screwed up now.
Once words are uttered, there is no going back. We can try to patch things up; however, once said, those hurtful words cannot be forgotten or taken back no matter how simple the comment might have been. Certain words should not be said; but, they are.
Trying to come back from my initial statement was not easy and did not happen. The only thing I could do was to explain why I had said what I did and admit to my wrongdoing for the way I stated my opinion. My comment was way too brutal and I should never have said it like that.
My son has written amazing stories in the past which are very entertaining and original. It’s been suggested to him to submit his work to certain companies that are interested in his type of work. So, to read something he came up with that was way below his standards just rubbed me the wrong way.
We must be careful with the words we use around our children if we want them to thrive. There is a song by the Christian music artist, Toby Mac titled Speak Life. It is a wonderful song that talks about inspiring people through the words we say.
There is so much power in the little member of our bodies known as the tongue that it is unreal. Our tongue utters things that are hidden in our hearts. Our tongue can be used to build kingdoms and nations. Our tongue can be used to inflict damage beyond our control. Our tongue can definitely tear people down to shreds. Even such a simple sentence containing fewer than ten words can inflict serious harm on those who are on the receiving end.
What’s done is done. I did go back and take the time to explain that I was wrong in the way I expressed my answer and should not have stated it the way I did. I went on to point out the areas of outstanding talent he possesses in his other work and explained that if he was going to do something less than his usual standard, it should be only as an outlet for his personal benefit and not to be publicized for an honest opinion.
I further explained that I could see the jibberish work he had written as a tool for him to vent and come up with fresh new ideas. I asked him what he expected his paragraph to express. He said he thought it was funny and that it would make me laugh.
For his age group, it might be, but I explained that there will be people out there in this world that will be as brutally honest about his work without a care in the world as to his feelings.
In a way, maybe it was better that I was the one to give him a taste of what an honest opinion to his work could look like no matter how brutal the delivery. Is there coming back from this?
YES.
The love we have for our children is proof that all is not lost when you have an “Oh, crap…” moment like I did. Our love is also in our hearts and is expressed through not only our words, but our every day actions.
We take the time to explain things and situations as honestly as we can due to the love we have in our hearts. We use life situations as teachable moments at every opportunity even when we mess up as parents because of the love within our hearts.
And because of the love within our hearts, we admit to our children that we are not going to be the perfect parents like those seen in the Donna Reed Show or Father Knows Best, but, we will not stop trying to be the best parents we can be.
We have the power to tear down; however, just as the Toby Mac song indicates, we also have the power to “speak LIFE through the words we say”.